True, I'm so happy to see your first date went well. He does sound shy, etc., but you know what? That's okay. At least he wasn't asking you hundreds of questions and you both could enjoy yourselves.
True, please pass me the tissues. I'm sobbing of your h's loss on the property and the fact that he's still whining about paying you your share. Oh, my, the man doth protest too much about it. Of course you don't care about him....after all you are entitled to your share of the money and in his eyes if you cared about him you would give it all to him. Nada! I wouldn't fall for that crap any longer. The manipulating mind games he's played w/you in the past aren't working now.
True, I know you love him, but you are right...everything will be settled shortly and then you'll have no reason to contact him unless you want to. I'm glad you are looking out for yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.