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I meant I don't have a choice when it comes to going into me mode.


Ahh...I understand now. Me mode is really a good place to be. I am enjoying it.

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I have to look out for me.


If you don't look out for yourself then no one will.

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She won't be a happy camper but hey, I wasn't for the longest time either.


BINGO!!! It is all about you now. Be happy, do what you want for you and don't worry about anyone else. Your kids need a happy dad and not one who is out of sorts.

Being happy makes things smoother too.