Hey Carlos, it's nice to know that you have options in the apartment front at least, right? Sounds like you have your pick of places. A pool is fantastic for kids and for you too, what a coup!

I have just realized that a lot of the things my H does isn't really intentional. I think your W may just wantt to be with the baby a little longer and not thinking about the impact this has on you. Don't worry, it's good that she wants to spend time with him anyway, right? I'd rather that than the opposite which is that she doesn't want to be near them at all. She is in a fog now so she is only thinking of herself and not about consequences of her actions. Not excuses for her but just the way it is. Are you totally dark or could you perhaps bring it up in such a way that is non-threatening so that you can organize your life a little bit better with a proper vistation plan that is more doable?


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'