That's what I'm wondering, whether it's too soon for me, but if I don't respond whether that's just building up bitterness.
I don't know how I'd be with her. So far whenever we've gotten together to talk, she's either broken into tears or started to break into tears and I don't feel like I can handle that.
I guess I feel like 4 months has been a long time, but if you and your texan XH stayed away for a year, that helps put things in perspective.
