I am going to sound hypocritical here because I felt the same way as you. I felt I had no choice because it was what my stbx wanted. I want you to know that you DO have a choice. You don't have to sign anything if you don't want to. You can drag it out.
But....
No matter what choice YOU decide for yourself, there is always a better tomorrow. Lola told me that sometimes you have to let things die for them to regrow. Maybe that is what you are destined for too. Your marriage has to end to begin again. Kind of like out with the old and in with the new. You don't want the old wife back, you want the new and improved wife. The one who has finally found her way back.
Would it be easier to piece back your marriage or try to start over? You and your wife would have to be friends again. I would think it would be hard to just step back in the roles of husband and wife after all you've been through. I know it would be for me.
Trapt, just remember YOU are the only one who knows what you want. YOU are the only one who can decide when enough is enough. YOU ARE IN CHARGE!!
