I can honestly say that I didn't check up on her and see if her needs were being met. I was very selfish and self-centered for the last 8 years of our marriage. I cared more about making money and having fun with my boys or online with total strangers in a game than I did whether my W was happy or content or fulfilled.

I came around very quickly when the threat emerged that I would lose everything unless I acted, but it seems that it was too late. Now I would do anything to save my marriage, but my W is so deep into her new life that I'm not sure she can be retrieved.

Looks like you and I both have tickets on the Titanic...


Me40
WAW37
M18 T20
S18,14 D13
EA Bomb 6/08
Sep 11/20/08
Ret 08/09
Sep/Filed 11/09

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