Hey, Glam (& Upside):

As you know, I am one of those who would like to "walk in your shoes", but as I read your posts, I am reminded that everything is relative. Life is a complex journey and every experience, good and bad, is meaningful. It's all in how we look at it.

Each and every day we make a choice on how we are going to live that day. We may yearn for the security of knowing there something we can "count on" so that we feel like we have some "control" over our destiny, but the reality is that life is not that way. Of course there is "God" as S/He is defined by each of us, but that also requires belief as opposed to "tangible reality".

But then, if we are the one's who make the choices each day, are we not the one's who are really in charge of our lives? Isn't that the very "control" we say we want but don't feel like we have? Hmmmm......that's something to think about, isn't it.....??

Oh, well, enough "waxing philosophical"!!

Hang in there, my wonderful friend!!! You are truly an amazing woman, and I believe that life holds for you happiness such as you can't even conceive of right now, because you deserve it!!!

[[[[[[hugs]]]]]]

Last edited by Silent Chrleader; 02/16/09 08:49 PM.

TJ

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