Two weeks is a short time but there is a big obstacle and that is she is from Germany and there is a lot of differences in he people and other items.
The one way I see you helping is listening to what she says and STOP thinking bout you.
Here is what I have learned. For 16 years I have been living my life and my wife has not been able to live hers. Not at all. It has always been my decisions she has had to deal with either good or bad. Never hers. I believe this is more about her now then I have ever known.
I have taken on hobbies and other things while she has done nothing. No hobbies no fun and why? Because she has always been the more responsible one and taken care of what I was f#$%^& up.
I also learned that she hates confrontation with a passion and will never yell or anything else and does not like people who are like that. I don't like being that way either so it will be easy for me to change. It is too bad I realized this now but at least I have and have a chance.
For you and your sitch you have other issues like Germany. But the main point is to really figure out what she has been saying and really look the issues. She has to see it for herself and she wont when you distracting her with neediness and wimpy man syndrome. Act as if and listen. Harder I know to say then do but you have to do it.
I have lost 14lbs in one week so believe me I know. I never knew the mind burns so much energy when its working.
I never knew the mind burns so much energy when its working.