Cinders,

Don't feel too bad. He's a 39 year old man and you haven't even gone on a single date with him! If I started texting that much to any man I just had a first date with, they would hightail it south and never look back.

What's nice is that your realize that you deserve some attention. Now it would be great to put yourself in situations where you could get some safe attention. You deserve it!