Walk Away German Wife (WAGW)

[PortlandDad]

Thanks Shark,

I am very interested in what you are saying. Knowing that you haven't read the post (it is a pretty dense read), do you have any specific advice for me? I know that what I've been doing isn't working (LRT). Every day my W is building her new fantasy life without me or the kids and becoming more entrenched in our separation.

When you say that I need to listen to her, what exactly should I do? My conversations with her are already few and far between and when she does call she usually only wants to talk about the kids. She has become adept at deflecting and avoiding questions and comments about what she is doing.

Should I be calling once a week and checking in with her? Wouldn't she view that as trying to control or spy on her? I am tired of going down cheesless tunnels, so maybe this is something that I should try.

Thanks so much for the suggestion!