Aud, This is going to be a difficult day. My W's emails and phone message state that she didn't feel listened to or validated.
She wants me to talk in a way many men aren't comfortable with or capable of talking. I think there is a gender gap issue going on here.
I'll let today happen, and let my W say and do what she's going to do.
The email needed to be sent. I needed to ask for respectful communication and to addresss the sleeping elsewhere. She's highly frustrated with the M at this point, and the lack of intimacy and attention from me. She said that things are getting worse.
I'll get home after work and see if there is opportunity to connect.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
