DO NOT DO WHAT YOU ARE DOING! I have not read your post but I am going to give you a piece of advice. The problem is still there and there is still work to be done.
Do not make the same mistakes I made. The hard work is really just beginning. forget everything you want and know and CHANGE the way you think and LISTEN to your wife.
I just learned things about my wife that I never knew after 16 years and already one separation and divorce papers. Now two years later I am back in and she is moving out and has picked up papers to fill out.
I know it seems strange but one day I just learned so much that I did not know and it was one day too late.
You must listen listen listen Forest Gump. :):)
The one thing I wish I would have done is checked in once a week for 15 minutes with my wife and just talked about her.
Again I have not read one word of your post but it came through the email and I had a feeling I should post.
