WAW New life with OM

[ppenton]

Thanks for the confirmation, as I said she was surprised to see her stuff but understood that I needed to packed it up as I was tired of looking at it. I feel so new to this as I’m sure lots of people do and don’t always know what to do or act. I have the DB list from Sandi2 which is great and going dimmer has been easier since W is not contacting me much except about the kids. W is working very hard with her new R and OM that we (her family) is in the background. I don’t think this R will last as I think W will get worn out but I’m trying really hard to move on as we have setup a separation agreement for the time being.
Like Phoenixdeux mentioned I’m trying to live like she is not coming back. It’s not easy as I want her back but have to be strong for my kids. They know who is still home and willing to keep the family together.