hi PM, My boss knows what is going on so he told me to take any time what I need. But job wise I am barely producing. I am very unfocused and I need to get busy with that.
I am meeting with atty today. See what develops. Have to respond to being served by I think March 1.
Some days I wish never to see his face again but most times I do want him back but I do realize how tough it will be financially -- since I have pulled money out from 401K and he has also but he has also spent wildly, emotionally and mentally -- I want him home but I don't know how I will be able to handle an aftermath of his A and the thoughts of the OW. Do we ever trust them again???
Not that this is anything I have to think about since he appears to be so committed to the OW. This weekend was a very depressing one for me. I was really crashing thinking about the rest of my life without my H. Not good.
PM how are you doing in your sitch? Any progress. I know you were thinking of going dark. It is so hard to know what to do. My decision to detach was that everytime I talked to H he would say "I was too emotional, too controlling, too everything". The only way I could take away taht perception was to be gone.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
