How did she respond when you told her that? I'm thinking it sounds like more drama that you are creating? unless she responded okay to it.
I guess she was displeased that I was not willing to come and visit her over there. SHe may have said something like .."if that is the way you feel ..then suit yourself" ..she would have sid something like that after the stock answer that she always gives in defense of her ex " he is a good, decent Christian man and father to my daughter".
Well, I am either creating more drama or else I am being bullheaded (I am a taurus afterall) and refusing to go along with the existing drama (which I did not create). Too much of a circus act for me. So I am being loving from a distance and trying to remember how to GAL.
