I had let GF know about the red flags and she understands. But overall she is a really great gal. We are taking it slow and are in no hurry.
GF told me that one of her sister-in-laws thought that maybe we would only work out as BF/GF because she had noticed that I am so attentive with my kids and maybe I would not do the same with GF's D4.
Talking with my cousin last night, who is good friends with GF's uncle, he seemed to feel that GF's mother is going to be a hurdle as she is "old school" Vietnamese with a lot of proper formalities and etiquite.
