Thanks so much for that different perspective Upside. I know that you and I are in a similar situation. Gosh I just get so down sometimes thinking about living alone here with the kids and what really am I suppose to be doing with my life.

I am appreciative of h's company, but this can't go on forever. You are right though even when/if they come home there will be a whole different set of problems.

Thanks Upside I needed that post right this moment.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"