Im'e doing fine. Sorry if I worried anyone but, I am really trying to focus on me/us and what I want in life, thus the reason for staying away from the boards. I feel that sometimes reading and talking with others that I don't focus enough on my task at hand. We are ok. H says he is still having a hard time but it isn't like he is sick he says or feels bad all of the time just depressed some times. Says his feelings for OW came after all his issues started and he knows it isn't real but still has feelings. Is that MLC or what. In any case I am patiently waiting for him to come back to earth. I certainly realise that I do not have it nearly as bad as some. Well that is my life latley in a nut shell.
Will talk more at some point soon.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez