Thanks Kat. I think you're right about progress. Last night when I went to go to bed, I said to her, "I'm going to bed, I had a really good time this weekend" and she said "I'm going out to smoke, and I had a really good time this weekend too".
She came to bed just a few minutes later and we watched the news for a bit before going to sleep.
Had some light, nice conversation this morning before heading off to work.
I'm not sure what's different, but she's definitely different than she was even a couple weeks ago. Not sure if the new bed removed a wall between us or if something else is going on in her head, but this past weekend just felt really good. Almost like a corner has been turned. Like I said, not getting my hopes up, but it's just nice.
And one more thing I thought of. Hope this isn't too much information, but it was obvious to me when we were "involved" Saturday night that she had "prepared", if you know what I mean. Ya know the way a woman prepares for being intimate? Well, she had. So she must have been thinking of going that route even before the night began as she showered before we left the house. Hummmmm.......
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Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.