Basically your XW is blaming you for not giving her exactly what she wanted when she wanted it! If the pension evaluation was in the final divorce agreement then just get it done. Xw is so absurd, if you get money from it, it will also benefit D. She just wants control over everything. Do what was agreed on and ignore her rants. Just remember this is also the woman who said you abused her. Reread her email, first she blames you for displacing D from the house, then she blames you for staying in the house. Look , if she was really concerned about money for D , she would make you a fair offer to even up the pensions without having them evaluated. You probably both can find out what they are worth.
