Hope, how is your job, are you doing OK? I know that you feel the burden of his spending so I want to make sure you have enough for yourself and D15.
Your H will have to make his own stupid decisions and live with them. When his infatuation dies down, he will get even more depressed (according to the six stages of MLC anyway). You need to think about whether you will still want to be around to support him financially, emotionally and mentally. Or will you be happy to be rid of him and his huge mess?
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09