Hope, forgot to answer your other question about company policy. My H has a special function in his company, they will not fire him. He will also do anything to keep her job for her so that route is pretty much blocked. Plus, I am not totally comfortable with messing with another person's income. Just because she is low enough to butt in on my M, doesn't mean I have to stoop to her level. I am to be true to myself and not stoop to hers. (I don't mean that about you by the way, you are in a different sitch since there is excess alcohol involved AND you have to see her face and work there everyday, like I said, I think you are totally unbelievably strong.) But I don't have to see OW so I will just let her dig her own grave, so to speak. I think people who do bad things, karma will eventually settle the score. I don't need to do anything. I will just let my own conscience be clear.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
