If she is going thru MLC, then she won't be listening to you. So just sit back and wait for the roller-coaster ride. you will see all sorts of moods and they may not have ANYTHING to do with you. don't worry yourself sick about what is in her head, you will be figure it out. Just make sure you look happy, cheerful, light-hearted and content. I know!!! It's the biggest acting job you will get but your M rides on it so practice in front of a mirror, OK? Put on a smile and think 'I am Leo DiCaprio'.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09