I'd have to say that from what you write here, you show about as much consistence as most people can muster. She obviously responds to you.
So maybe you can trust a little bit more in the things that initially attracted her to you. You know, flirt a little bit. Do you already? Even if she accuses you of trying to win her back you can blow her off like that isn't what you're doing. Yes, it's a game, but ... You know, not the polite, pandering kind of flirting, but the confident "I enjoy life" kind of flirting.
