I'm so sorry to read all you are going through. I wish I had something constructive to say. I just wish you the best and I sincerely hope everything works out for you bud.

Me: 30
W: 30
M: 8.5yrs
BOMB: 12-23-08
OM: 02-11-09
PA: 02-20-09
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1696646&page=1&fpart=1