I wish I could say I am surprised. I know it is against your beliefs, but you really need to sit down and think at this point. Are you sure this is what you want for the rest of your life?
Maybe you should check over in SSM.
I'm gonna go out on a limb here. I am asking because of your religion and stronghold to it. Are you a "missionary only" type of man? Maybe she got bored? If the sex you've had since is the same sex you've always had....you see where I'm going. Didn't want to ask..but...oh...nothing is hardly sacred around here anyway, kwim? Not trying to put you on the spot.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."