Update and another question: Going dark have been working so far. After almost a week of silence, she called me yesterday asking if I was mad at her (because "I don't talk to her anymore"). I said, I wasn't - just giving us space we both need. During the conversation I was asking questions mostly about her; health, job - encouraged her to make a move about her career. Nothing about M or R. Didn't say much about myself and for the first time I had full control during this conversation. In the old days I'd be the one who would eventually ask if we can meet soon and when etc. This time I didn't say a word. Can tell that she was very surprised by my approach and finally asked me if it was ok if she would come by the house again and maybe she could leave some vegetables (long story) for me. I said ok.
When I came back from work today I saw "my veggies" on the table, didn't pick up her mail which means she propably is looking for an excuse to see me.
Question; Given that I stayed silent for almost a week and that she called me first, came by the house again, how should I react to that sudden "veggie" trick?
Obviously she's been trying to stay in touch and I don't want to mess it up by going "too dark".
Should I text her simple "thanks for the delivery" or just let it go and wait what happens next?
