I feel your pain, I really do. I can see the fear in my Kids eyes as a result of the cold and nasty attitude my W takes with me, and then she just switches gears and is sweet as pie with them. I know they must be thinking "I sure hope Mom never stops loving me the way she's stopped loving Dad". It's so blatant, like Jeckyl and Hyde, meanwhile I play the happy doormat, taking whatever attitude and jabs she dishes out so as not to be confrontational or make an issue of things.
I hope they get from this that if you love somebody unconditionally, you will take the higher road, turn the other cheek, kill them with kindness, treat them with compassion because they are hurting. My older son seems to get it, while my younger son mirrors her activity, and totally shuts me out.
I would say that our wives have been abducted by the same group of aliens.
I just kep reminding myself, people change, feelings change, they've changed once, they'll change again.
