Originally Posted By: nerfus
Can it work, I just don’t know what to do for the best when she hits me as I’ve gotta be truthful and say that the attacks never really inflict any actual bodily pain, yeah they leave a few bruises and the scratches were sore for a day or two, but no real physical damage is done. It just doesn’t seem right calling the police, I know if I ever did she would just turn this around and use it against me “how can you call the police when you say you love me” kind of thing. She’s done this many a time over the past couple of weeks saying “that’s a funny way of showing me you love me” when I react in a particular way to something she’s done or said. The police, god that’s a hard one . . .



And so, you just keep getting abused.

Instead of focusing on your wife, Nerfus, I'd suggest that you focus on yourself and your own issues for the time being. Why do you suppose you want to remain in a marriage where none of your needs are met, and where you are getting abused??

Puppy