I am so proud of you!!! Your kids do know what is going on and they can see what you are doing. You are loving them, spending time with them, caring about and for them. You do not talk bad about thier mother and they will remember that. As the old saying goes, give her enough rope and she will hang herself.
Again, God has not only sent you a sign (sending your parents to be there when OM showed up) but you truely have given everything over to God and he is working for you now. It may not be what we all want but you DO sound so very happy!
It's up hill now (maybe a few bumps but not big ones)
H-41 (alcoholic) Me-38 D-13 SD-10 T-6yrs M-4.75yrs Bomb-10/4/08 Moved in w/OW 11-13-08