morning. brrrrrrrr its cold here in kansas. spent half of yesterday in bed, watching movies, friday nite was long (thanks jeff) and yesterday was just well weird. will get to that later. todays dilema. the bday party for the ow's son. Do I go with H and D16? my mil will NOT go as its not for H's son. to eary for these decisions lol.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
It would certainly surprise the heck out of her. It would show you supporting your H, something she doesn't expect. This game of chess might just wear her down. Make a wonderful day!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Is your hub going whether you go or not? If you can stomach it, I'd dredge up some dignity and grace and go with him. It's obvious you're the better woman, bigger person, etc. But if you can't go with a good attitude - real or fake (and the Oscar goes to BG) -- I'd skip it.
well, as we were literally walking into church, his phone started ringing. he turned it off. soon as its over, he called her, thier son is sick, she is mad at him for not answering the phone. so H and D16 went to babysit him. again i can not go. this is the stupidest thing she has ever done, h knows nothing as to what to do with a sick 2 yo. I do.
imagine that, not included again.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
hey NIGHT!! well, he did call, again and again and again and again. CAUSE he didnt know what to do. he admitted i should have bee there, as neither of them knew what to do, BUT she said no.
enuff said. actually i am ok. church today, 40 days til freedom. to bad he doesnt hear, i did tho.
i understand its me, has to be, not him, and i am ok with that. its out of my hands. i cant dwell anymore.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
BG..... it's not your problem that he doesn't know how to take care of "his" son. In my opinion you should not have been there. If she wants him to take care of the little guy, then it is her problem to teach him how, or his problem to find out. It sure as heck isn't you problem.
Actually, turning off your phone wouldn't have been a terrible plan, in my opinion. Let them figure it out.
I have to completely agree with Jeff here. HIS son, HIS problem. There are other people he could call for help. He's a grown man supposedly, so why do you need to be involved in the care of OW's son. Also, ow has another child. How did that kid survive illnesses without a daddy to come and care for him? He's still living so I'm willing to bet that the skank figured out how to take care of him.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
