Wow. Now don't tell me that isn't progress. Wow is all I can say.

It might get better and then worse as you have to sort out past feelings, but I think you're on the right course. Keep doing whta you are doing.

LMNW, I wish my H would have an awakening like yours. There was no affair in your sitch; in mine there is, but at least H is paying more attention to D.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D