My now exh was a cake eater for our entire s/d and even after. He is still trying to be, but I want nothing to do with it. IMO, save yourself. He has no respect for you. NONE. He is just thinking about his overinflated ego.

Why should he have to choose, he has the best of both worlds? I lived it. Sex will not bring an unremorseful WS home.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!