Well we actually ate dinner together. It wasn't anything much, but we sat at the same table and talked. To be honest, I'm not worried that much about the car. I probably wouldn't have even brought it up if I was entirely awake. I also think you are right about the insecurities and I think the whole weird bit later was the first argument trickling into those insecurities.
I'm starting to pick up on things now that suggest that she may be wavering on her decision. One things that I left out was she said that the lawyer was going to send me a packet with the terms of the divorce. She went on to say that nothing was signed yet or anything, but it was just so that I had the information.
I'm gad to see that things are starting to look up on your end. We spend so much time talking about my sitch that you never get a chance to update on yours.