Originally Posted By: spellfire
If she is so checked out, why is she buying you 5LL? Is that something you requested as a gift?


One of my friends had recomended it. I asked if she had read it as she had read a ton of books over the years she was trying. She said her mom sugested it but she never got it

I found the quiz on the internet and we both took it. The results were interesting as our primary and secondary languages were the same. I said I was going to get the book and she offered to get it for Vday. She did NOT get me a card. First time ever. It hurt but it was a reminder where her heart was.

What's toughest now is before she felt we were just roommates. Now she feels we're friends but because of her pain/hurt she can't be vulnerable to want me as a husband

So how do you move beyond friends?

I don't think DR covers that


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13