Originally Posted By: Lwb
Hey mister! I thought we were down to 'business/kids' talk only with the W.


Yeah, I know. I can't seem to let her crazy-arsed assertions go unchallenged. That's due to the needless panic I feel now that STBXW is trying to take me out now.

It's not the view of myself that I worry about being skewed; it's that she and the toxic MIL are going to gang up on me in court to try to skew a judge in seeing it their way.

I just need to prepare what I can and not worry myself about those things I am not in control of. I need to let go and let God. I need to live by that philosophy, even as hard as that seems now. I need to shake this pessimism and realize that even in the worst case, God will work something out for the better.

I admit that I am indeed scared now for me and my sons. But I need to think like Yoda now -- "Fear is the path to the dark side: fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering."





Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.