Soo true!! In my sessions with my c he had told me that i had let go...but it was now time to bury xh. As with you making him "dead" to me has brought much healing. AND as with you - i believe that ONLY God can move on our x's and it is up to htem to move with His leading. AND I ALSO really really believe that if they grab onto the leading of God bringing them back into our lives that we will know it was GOD!! that is the ONLY way I want x back....
i noticed...your little one..she is 4...oh how i love that age.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again