A tree that can fill the span of a person's arms grows from a downy tip. A terrace nine stories high rises from handfuls of earth. A journey of a thousand miles stats from beneath one's feet. Your vision will become clear only when you look into YOUR heart. Those who look outside, dream. Those who look inside AWAKEN. --CARL JUNG
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
A tree that can fill the span of a person's arms grows from a downy tip. A terrace nine stories high rises from handfuls of earth. A journey of a thousand miles stats from beneath one's feet. Your vision will become clear only when you look into YOUR heart. Those who look outside, dream. Those who look inside AWAKEN. --CARL JUNG
Beautiful....
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you can really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing you think you cannot do. -Eleanor Roosevelt
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world, as in being able to remake ourselves. -Ghandi
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Hey, does anyone have a cure for itching powder? For some reason all my underwear is really itchy........................
JK
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
My babies come home today from ex's, so maybe I'll hear something.
I am doing well.
Concentrating on my life and getting ahead.
I have been working alot of extra hours to help financially.
I know this sounds weird, but I have been able to move on better because I tell myself that ex is dead. Only God can bring him back and if he does, I will know it.
There is no sense in trying to force something to happen.
Hanging on is the worst part.
Because there is not much to hang on to with the ML'er.
Everyday changes.
There mind flip flops.
You can't hang on to that.
You have to hang on to yourself and your children.
More productive
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Soo true!! In my sessions with my c he had told me that i had let go...but it was now time to bury xh. As with you making him "dead" to me has brought much healing. AND as with you - i believe that ONLY God can move on our x's and it is up to htem to move with His leading. AND I ALSO really really believe that if they grab onto the leading of God bringing them back into our lives that we will know it was GOD!! that is the ONLY way I want x back....
i noticed...your little one..she is 4...oh how i love that age.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
