Thanks Stacy. I guess I know what you mean about the fact that right now she must at the very least prefer being single whether she's enjoying it or not. I can't help but try and figure her out. I'm afraid it just comes naturally to me. I've always been the kind of person who searches for answers in everything. I am trying not to dwell on it too much.
It felt really good to know that I can still enjoy a night out. I was really worried about it but it turned out fine in the end. My W's friends were completely great with me. One of them was even possibly a little bit too friendly!! I was sensible enough not to go down that road though. It'd be a great story to tell the guys but not healthy for my M. I was flattered though. It's always good to know that you're still attractive enough for people to notice.
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.