Just got back from the show and our night away. And it was GOOD.
We went to an Irish Pub for dinner and some drinks, talked and talked. Went to the show and it was FANTASTIC! If you've never seen one of these kinds of shows, do it. You won't be disappointed.
After the show we went back to the pub and had a late night snack and a couple more drinks.
Went back to the room and got into bed and I decided it was time to see where we were, so I "made my move" and she didn't pull back. And we ML. Pretty hot and passionate if I do say so myself. Came home a bit ago, talking the whole drive.
So, here are some things that happened and I noticed.
EGF TM'd W during the show. W didn't see it til the show was over, but EGF got engaged.....again. So now she's 25/26 and going to marry her 3rd H. First two marriages lasted a year only. Her last divorce was final about this time last year, she found the next victim and now she's going to marry him. Like S16 said to me the one day EGF and (now) Fiance came to pick up W, "good god man, run as far away as you can while you still have a chance". Totally cracked me up.
Right before the show started, W asked me about the job move that fell through. I told her it fell through and I came close to being run off from my job because of my performance last year. I think she get's how our sitch contributed to that.
One time last night and one time this morning I saw W looking at her left ring finger, like she was thinking about her wedding rings. It'll be interesting if they go back on soon.
W was talking about buying a car again last night, but I wasn't in the right frame of mind (Tennant's and Stella Adrois will do that to you) so I didn't have that conversation with her. But I listened.
W was kind of angry that she'd sent S20 a Happy Valentine's TM and he didn't respond. I sent him a TM and told him to TM his Mother. He did, but she was pissed because he hadn't responded earlier so she didn't respond for a bit, but eventually did.
On the way home this morning, S16 called me and we talked for a bit. I asked him if he wanted to talk to his mom and he said "no". I gave the phone to her anyway and they talked and had some good laughs after I told her he said "no" when I'd asked him if he wanted to talk to her. After she hung up she said "You can always count on S16 to tell the truth". And I just replied "yes". A short time later we stopped at a gas station to get a quickie coffee and when we pulled in I asked W if she wanted anything else and she said "I want a big bag" (the ice machine outside the station had a sign for big bags of ice and she was just trying to make a funny) so I replied, "I'll have to see what I can do" and she looked at me and I said "oh, come on, that was funny" and she then realized what my joke was and she smiled and laughed.
That's about it. Time for a nap. Not as young as I used to be.
It was a very good evening and although I'd like to say we're on our way forward again, I'm not getting my hopes up. She may have just wanted "it" and it meant nothing to her. But we'll see.
Talk to ya soon.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.