I just wanted to give everyone an update. Well I think my W is done with talking with OM W. I think she realizes that to keep our M on the right track is to stop her friendship with OM W. I had a session with my DB coach this week and a week after my W had a session with my DB coach. My coach thinks that all that was between the OM and her was what my W said. Just dirty texting and when he tried to pursue more she cut it off with him. And that my W is real ashamed that it all happened. Things between my W and I are going real good. I still get upset about the whole thing but am doing much much better. So for now I'm going to sit back and work on my W and what we had lost to have put me in this situation. Also my W has fogiven me on the name calling I did a few weeks back. I hope from here there is nothing but moving up and making our M stronger and better than it was. I hope anyone who has dealt with the same thing as I have can get to a better place and everything works out for you. Thank you all for all your input. You've been a big help. I don't know where I would be today if I didn't have this forum to tell my story. Good luck...........
