no intro to ow yet, but in the D agreement he wants to introduce ow to kid in 9 months and overnights in 15 months from now
Well, this is really good, considering the other situations we read about, huh? I know its still awful though. Its like the OW doesn't deserve the privledge of knowing your beautiful creations. I get it.
You are doing all the right things. The only other thing that will help is time. I think you are making the right decision to not date. I don't think its fair (in my situation, at least) to start a relationship with someone while xH is still mucked up in my head. It gets all tangled up with emotions, love, etc.
I am sorry you are here, but its a great group of people.
