I see that CIW has been talking with you that's good.
My H also dropped a complete bomb on me and I also feel like that anyone who disagrees with him, he would cut them out of his life. You wrote down my sentiments exactly. I think my H is going thru MLC. Do you mind if I ask if you think your W is seeing someone else? Has your W complained to you about your M, do you have any idea why she is unhappy?
Like CIW said, I would start GAL but also part of that is improving yourself. That means to become the best person you can be. If that means taking some of her criticisms and improving yourself with her opinions then so be it. I know our spouses could be finding excuses and justifications but sometimes there just could be a kernal of truth in their observations.
I've had to face many of my own demons. I hope you can face them as well and come through this a better person. Then when she finally works out her own issues, maybe her 'new' eyes will see a better man waiting for her. Good luck.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
