hard to give any advice with out knowing more. I can't come close to telling you what your H might be thinking cause I can't understand how he can show nothing at all. Honestly if its been 3 years and you mostly don't want it I think it might be time to end it. but again I do not know all the details. Is am only going by what you have here.
I pray every day for a solution no matter what it will be. I know god loves me no matter what. And I am pretty sure he will not leave your side no matter what you choose.
My W just said it's over a couple days after a small fight. and there was no one else at that time. But after about a month she had her profile on some dating websites.
I don't know if any of this helps and I might not be the one to give any advice. I am a little confused in my sitch right now. But, What ever gods plan is I will accept as the best for me.
Me 41 W 44 Together 7 years Married 6 Bomb Dec 2 08