I did not realize that something happened between you and DW exH. or have you always not liked him? How did she respond when you told her that? I'm thinking it sounds like more drama that you are creating? unless she responded okay to it.

Perhaps she did not want you to see her in such a vulnerable and not-so-pretty state, if in fact she is wanting to pursue things with you again. That would be my thought. Cause in a way, you guys are dating again, and when your dating, for us girls, we don't want our guys to see us looking like crap.

just a thought.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."