Wow. Your daughter and my son really are some smart cookies that's for sure. They pick up on so much and I believe MB is correct that you have to take the high road. The kids will figure it out for themselves and you owe it to them to let them. They're innocents and very smart ones at that.
I'm always up for a shot and a beer by the way. Just let me know when and where
Confidence? I wasn't aware of the physical aspect. That's not cool at all. Do you really want your daughter to grow up thinking that's normal? I think not. I do think your husband wanted to get back together from what you told us. I do. I think he's really f'd up in the head too. Until he can look at himself in the mirror and realize what he wants, I don't think you owe him anything. I think if you go through with it he'll have to deal with it much more than you will. I think you'll be fine and will find somebody you really like and care about.
Your kids are what is important. Setting a good example for them is important. Your Daughter sees one. Your son will deserve the same. It'll take every ounce of strength but you're worth it. Your kids are way worth it.
I'm so sorry to hear this. I really had high hopes for you.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
