Thanks Donna! I just got back from the movie Fireproof and it is indeed a wonderful movie but it's just a movie! The attempt to sell people on a marriage fix that works in 40 days is, well ridiculous. Sure, God could do it but I'm guessing in 99.9% of cases he ain't gonna. I was sitting there thinking that what this guy went through for forty days I went through for years! I remembered how many times I heard "I don't love you" in that time. This guy was in Disneyland compared to that. He also made a big boo boo and did so, of course, because it's Hollywood and the crowd gets what the crowd wants. He goes to the hospital, where his W works, and confronts his W's OM, a move that never works out well in real life but this ain't real life. He even threatened the guy and instead of running to the W and snitching OM seems to back off...yah right! I really did feel the rejection the H felt in his attempts to do something different in his forty days of divorcebusting. I used to try all sorts of things to turn things around and it's the most self esteem destroying thing to watch your partner practically spit in your face each time but, hey,that's what an A will do to them. That's why GAL is so important to those of us trying to DB cuz without it you can get pretty demoralized. 40 days to a new marriage, try 40 weeks bare minimum, if that! Oh well, it was an entertaining and touching movie well worth seeing. But beware it can bring up a lot of emotional sh!t which is probably why I'm sounding so nasty tonight! Review ended
