I would print off hard-copies first of all - can be invaluable in a divorce.
They actually can help even the odds - women start out with a 70/30 advantage, and showing something like that can make things 50/50. ESPECIALLY since he's married.
Be forewarned - if you do it, and your W finds out about it, she will FLIP OUT. You need to be strong, don't you DARE back down - just stand there and say, "I do this for my family."
