My W left her email open today by accident and went off. I looked through it and sure enough got all the proof I needed ot the torid PA she has been having since at least back to October.
I know who the guy is and his W doesn't know. I have like 40 emails of conversations between them of documenting it. I am going to send the OM 2 emails and tell him to break things off with W by Monday morning or I am sending all emails to his W. He loves his kids and has had some guilt about this A although enjoying it. He doesn't want his family going through a D. He made one comment about calling my W his piece of A on the side.
I'm also going to tell him not to leak a word of this to my W or all emails go to his W. I know he does not want this. This is what I have been waiting for.
I am also saying in the email that I hope he appreciates the respect I am showing to him and his family by going directly to him first. I don't want his family to go through this and I don't want mine to.
Suggestions? Thoughts?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
