Grace, you are oh so right...everytime I think my H and I are making progress...it comes back to bite me in the butt.

Glam-I hope you Valentine's Day was wonderful. Don't be too jealous of me waking up next to my H. He usually gets up and leaves before daybreak...it is weird.

My H and I seemed to be doing pretty well this week. He's been calling me everyday and I met him for dinner on Thursday. He came back to my house afterward and stayed the night but only until about 4:30 in the morning. He woke up and said he couldn't go back to sleep plus he needed to go back to his apartment because he needed a pair of shoes that he didn't have at my house. Sometimes I have to wonder if he is telling me the truth. Anyway, as he was leaving, I asked if he knew what Saturday was. He eventually said Valentine's Day and then said "You know I hate Valentine's Day...Don't get me a gift." I just mentioned something about us doing something together. He responded by saying I'll call you later. He did try to call me later but it was a bad cell connection so we never really talked. So today around noon, I get a text from my H saying "Hey Happy VD". I eventually responded and we sent several frienly texts back and forth...there was no mention of doing anything today. After that, I went about doing what I need to but things started to bug me. I know I shouldn't have done this but later I called him just to let him know how I was feeling. I thought I handled things in a very calm and mature manner but he said something about me being juvenile. My H seemed to think that my thoughts of Valentine's day should mirrorr his. I explained to him that it wasn't necessary to give me a gift but even if Valentine's is a made up holiday, it never hurts to let people know you care about them...I also said that I just preferred to not spend the evening alone (my kids had their own plans). According to him the conversation wasn't going well so he wanted to call me back later.

So just a few minutes ago my H calls and said "Do you still want me to come over?" I reminded him that he never said he would come over. He then told me that he might have been cranky with me earlier because he thought somehow I was trying to interfere with his nap! So now he is coming over after I spent the afternoon feeling like $hit after he completely disregarded my feelings. GRRR!!!! I think I need some wine.